Chip on my shoulder

There is probably something really wrong with me. I sweat the small stuff too much and let stupid things bother me. And why do certain people irritate me so much? Like people who are too religious, too quiet or too damn positive! I need to find the answer to this and I realise that the answer is within me, just have to dig deeper. (Maybe it's menopause roaring its ugly head already...God no!!!!...if I am going to be anything like my mom during that period I am heading for disaster! Better warn people around me and say bye bye to the boyfriend.)