He has done it again! My ex that is. Never ceases to disappoint me, reaching new all time lows all the time.
Today it was a discussion about our vacation. In my world focus should be on the kids, making sure that they have a summer break as long as it possibly can be. Guess I was wrong...my ex has vacation 2 weeks in August when I have already started my work again.(If I have a job...but that is another problem). He also has 2 weeks in July when I am on vacation too. Guess which of the 2 weeks he wants? Yup! The 2 weeks in July. The result? Our(? does not feel like ours anymore)kids have to spend 2weeks in "after-school" activities before school starts.
It really should not affect me nor surprise me...because this is how he has acted for 1 ½ years now. And still...it made be cry like a baby at the kithcen table an hour ago. Damn it! Why do I even bother and why do I think that he would ever think like me...how could he!? He does not even have half a brain.
Wish a could delete him...and replace him with a father who actually cares about his kids and not just his own ego. I know there are quite a few out there...too bad I did such a bad choice picking a sperm donor...
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How many times does one see this sort of behaviour ... from both parties actually .. i have seen it where women are so bitter they 'withhold' access and make it difficult for the man to have any quality time with his children, and then u see this typical egocentric male behaviour, the motivation i suggest is to disrupt the life of his ex as much as possible, because this is what satisfies his bitter self.
ReplyDeleteEither way it really is the lowest of behaviour ... where one party goes out of their way to make it as difficult as possible for the other, by using the children!! It reeks of immaturity and selfishness.
Dun cry Ms Mom ... fill ur life with the ppl who DO love UuU - and while deletion may not be possible, that does not stop u finding that 'alternative' ... as u say, there are many men who would bend over backwards to be part of you and your children's lives ..... so dun despair ... just do what has to be done.
With the holidays however, cant u extend them by sharing the children about with their Grand Parents for those two weeks? .... maybe a day here and there with close family friends? .... send them to that 'Uncle' of yours in Sydney for two weeks ..*hahaha*
While it would be convenient to be able to rely upon ur ex, maybe it is too much to ask to have that and ur independence as well?? That would be nice in a perfect world ..*smile*.. but perhaps the latter is more important in reality.